I am my mother?

I am turning into Kay. This is not a bad thing. However, I noticed this past weekend that either Kay has taken things from me, or I from her.

- Kay uses the term "this one" to refer to a present third party. For instance, she and my cousin are discussing our other cousin's phone habits. She is a long pause, meaning there are extremely awkward pauses when you are on the phone with her. Kay then informs my cousin that I'm the same way by saying "Well, this one is just as bad!" So in one conversation I find out that I'm bad on the phone and I've picked up a phrase from my mom (or she stole from me, which I contend.)